There is a fundamental fact that everyone must get over in order to become successful with women.
FACT: Talking to a complete stranger is going to be weird at first.
Yes, your interaction is going to be uncomfortable for a minute. You are going to talk to that random hot girl and it's going to be weird. It's your job to make the interaction after the opening LESS weird. The less weird and more normal you make your conversation, the greater chance you have of getting laid.
Think about the last time you saw a friend that you hadn't seen in a long time. It was cool seeing him but then, right after you clasp hands, its a tiny bit uncomfortable. So what do you do? You tell a funny story. You ask a question. You bust on him for wearing sandals. Then the other person does the same to you and Whammy! comfort is established and you start to talk about things you've been doing recently, jobs, girls, cars, etc. You then begin to connect (establish rapport) on a deeper than surface level and it's all good again.
A lot of dudes get stressed when they see an attractive girl. Their minds are racing, trying to find that perfect thing to say. They want to know the smoothest "pick-up" line. It ain't gonna happen, fellas. If you want perfection, go to sleep and dream - because in the real world, its going to be awkward as hell. Especially if you're not used to talking to complete strangers.
So open the conversation with anything. Take out your glass eye and hand it to her. Grab that gay beret off her head and put it on. Tell her she looks like Papa Smurf. Walk over and say, "What's up." Anything. (Note: The more creative the better, but if you can't think of anything "Hi! You guys look fun!" works pretty well). The opening is the easy part, but so so many dudes can't even talk to a strange girl. I know this because I was one of these dudes. I would literally get physically ill to my stomach if I approached a strange chick. This was my body trying to protect my ego from getting hurt. It was like my self was in a conspiracy against my brain to try to prevent me from getting laid. However, I knew the only way I could get rid of this pain in my core was to keep on opening. So I marched on, determined to battle the demons in my psyche.
Face your worst fears head-on. What's the most embarrassing social situation you can dream of. What's your worst fear about being rejected? What if you went up to that chick, said "Hey wuttup, I think you're cute and I just wanted to meet you," and you get LAUGHED at. I mean she turns to look at you and she just busts up laughing in your face and then turns her back and walks away to talk to another dude.
This was my worst fear. I say was in the past-tense because this actually did happen to me. I no longer fear it because I know now that I'm still the same person. I didn't cry about it. Actually when it happened I laughed out loud with her. I wanted to thank her for being such an uber-bitch! She helped to show me that my reality cannot be shattered by some stranger who only met me three seconds earlier. I was still that awesome person on the inside but she was too bitchy to be able to see that. She lost- not me.
FACT: If you want to get chicks outside of your social circle you need to open girls outside of your social circle.
"A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." - Lao-Tzu. I bet Lao-Tzu got tons of chicks, because he wasn't afraid of the first step. Once you take the first step, the magical process of momentum takes over and it guides you to the finish. So open guys. Open guys, open girls, open dogs. Just start opening.
